Today I donated blood for the first time (yay good deeds!) and one of the things they warned me against was “strenuous activity.” I never would’ve guessed that masturbation fell under that category. I feel a bit light-headed now…
I can’t listen to the XX without thinking about sex. All of their songs ooze sex appeal.
Also, in between the holidays and my ability to sleep in until 3pm I’ve been neglecting this blog and your queries. No worries, my pretties, posts will be posted and questions will be answered. All will be right in the world again.
I'm pretty much the biggest fan of your blog, but I had to remain anonymous just in case my boyfriend happens to see this.
I love sex. He loves sex. the first two times we ever got physical, he got nervous and came right away. And now he's being a big baby about it and wont let me try and please him at all. I'm not trying to rush him, he just doesn't seem to get the fact that I don't care how long it takes him, I'm happy. His situation wont get any better if he keeps avoiding it. Any advice you may have on helping him get more comfortable with his stamina?
Talk to him, tell him that you’re not here to judge him, that you simply want to explore yourself with him. STROKE HIS EGO. Tell him everything you just told me, minus the ‘big baby’ part.
Start off things slowly, don’t get too hot and heavy at first. Hopefully that’ll hold him back a bit.
Hi there.. So I love your blog. Love your attitude ;) I'm curious though, from an aesthetic perspective, what would your ideal cock look like?
If you see my blog, you'll notice that I'm quite selective about what I like, so since I'm a fan of yours I'd like to know what does it for you, again, from an aesthetic perspective (real life is another matter) ;)
I really have no ideal dick. I like ‘em in all shapes and sizes as long as the guy waggin’ it around knows how to use it.
just wanted to start off the typical way of 'i love your blog'! :-)
now, more importantly, i have issues with my confidence... which i'm pretty sure everyone does, but now it's really affecting my sex life. i don't even know what it is that's created this! ... not so long ago, i was pretty much in the frame of mind where i didn't even think of my body as an issue as such, and just got on with it and had a brilliant time.
but now throughout all i'm thinking is "what does he think of my body..? why does he even find me attractive?"
i know it's pretty pathetic, and i really would love to 'get on with it' and enjoy sex again... but i'm finding it really difficult to get passed this. i'm pretty sure that it's not only affecting how i feel toward sex, but also how i perform too.
We all have body issues at one point or another. But for us girls, honestly, I’m almost positive we care more about our body image than the guys we’re having sex with do. This guy is getting a great view of your tits and all we can think about is about the extra pounds we gained from multitude xmas parties. You know what? Fuck it. You’re one hot mama giving this dude the time of his life (and yours too).
But honestly, I can’t change your mind about how you view yourself—that’s up to you. Bodies are beautiful, the female one especially. Embrace it. You have nothing to prove to anyone else except yourself.
I’m heading to NYC tomorrow night and that is why, on a very non-sexual note, I’d like to entreat you, specifically those familiar with NYC, to give me the scoop on all the hip places to eat, drink, and sleep shop. Would you please and thank you?
I'm still a virgin, Idk if its the girls in my area. or just me. I fail at talking to a girl. I act like myself in everything. even bring up my passions & things im into such as music. But when I go for the move they ALWAYS reject me, IDK what to do ;(
Don’t hate me for saying this but…be patient. You’re princess will cum.